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Let’s Talk About: Top 10 Blogger Steps and Strategies

Are you thinking starting your own blog? Have you thought about what it takes to be a blogger? I only started my blog less than a year ago, and I feel so late to the game compared to some veteran bloggers, but in the short amount of time I have had my blog, I have learned many tips from studying other blogs and from other bloggers that I want to share with you! Even if you already have a blog, maybe you’ll learn a new nugget that you didn’t think of before or a reminder to something you haven’t been focusing on.

 

Step 1: Come up with a Name! This step is crucial. Your name represents you and your blog. As a blogger, you want it to be inviting, relatable, and have a name that is easy to spell, pronounce, and remember. Do you want to use your own name? Do you want to come up with a fun, catchy, unique name? Do you want to use your blog as a brand or business name? When I was coming up with a name for my website, blog, brand, and business, I wanted to come up with something catchy and fun that used my name and something that represented me as a mom and a professional. Before you decide on a name, make sure the domain is available first and if it is, buy it as soon as possible! It took me years to find the perfect name that represented my brand and me. Many of the names I came up with first weren’t available. I can’t imagine having another name other than The Parentologist w/Dr. Kim (and I also took an additional step and trademarked the name but it was a very long and expensive ordeal) but it took a long time to find a name that was what I wanted that wasn’t already being used. I think that is why many bloggers use their first and or last name!

 

Step 2: Buy a Domain! One of the largest domain companies is GoDaddy, but you can search around to find the best deals for what your needs are when buying a domain. Some domains are as low as $12 a year and others are higher and may come with more perks, so choose one depending on what you want out of your blog and online space. I used Bluehost to buy my domain but another option is Google because they have domains available now, too. And don’t forget to renew your domain once you have it (usually every year). You will typically be sent a reminder, but if you don’t renew in time you can lose it, so set a reminder for yourself. I also use WordPress to write my blogs and hired a web designer to create an inviting website as a place for others to visit.

 

Step 3: Create a Logo! Like the trademark, this isn’t a vital step in the blogging process. I know a lot of successful bloggers that do not have their blog trademarked or even have a logo, but it is an option if you have the money and the desire to fully capitalize on your brand! My logo is exactly how I envisioned it, but it took months to get it just right and a few hundred dollars. Make sure you own the rights to your logo if you get one. For me, I use it on everything from my website/blog, social media, business cards, etc. My logo represents me and my brand it is an integral part of my brand.

 

Step 4: Decide on a Platform! Do you want to be a mom blogger, a lifestyle blogger, a fashion blogger, a travel blogger, a food blogger or something else? You can always evolve to some extent, but once you come up with a niche, stick with it and grow within that platform. If you blog about everything your audience may get confused. I consider myself a parenting and lifestyle blogger so I have some freedom in what I post since I have so many interests and knowledge in so many areas, but even if I go outside the box and post something about travel or food, for example, I always try to tie it back to family, children, parenting, etc. I have found that most of your audience will follow their favorite bloggers within a specific niche. They will have their favorite parenting blog, their favorite craft blog, their favorite fashion blog, etc. Rarely can someone pull off all of them! But if you can, more power to you. I suggest starting with one platform and then adding on more eclectic information as you grow.

 

Step 5: Think About Photos! I personally haven’t used photos in my blogs. I solely focus on the content in my blogs and save the photos for my social media accounts. However, I personally think pictures tell a story and I know there is a good chance that my blog would be more successful if I posted pictures to go along with what I am writing. Honestly, I do not own a fancy camera and you don’t have to either. All of the photos I take are on my iPhone. Because they are taken from my phone, I have to try really hard to focus on lighting since I don’t edit my photos other than using a filter once in a while. When I am ready to take my blog and social media to the next level, I will invest in a camera and better photography, but right now, my phone will have to do.

 

Step 6: Link Your Social Media! You certainly do not have to have a social media account if you have your own blog and vice versa. However, many successful blogs are also linked up to an Instagram and even a Facebook and other social media platforms like Twitter, Pinterest, and more. Promote your blog posts through these social media platforms and have more than one because some of your followers many only have a Facebook page and not an Instagram account or vice versa. Cross promotion is always helpful. I am on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and Pinterest!

 

Step 7: Network with Bloggers! Read other blogs. Support other bloggers. Comment on posts. Email them and collaborate with them. Do what you can to get involved and find a network of bloggers that will also support you! To be honest, I have spent most of my time over the last year networking to grow my audience. The more people you know, the bigger the following and the more opportunities you will have. I have tried to creatively find ways to collaborate with other bloggers and you win some and you lose some. I have been rejected and ignored more than I have actually been accepted and reciprocated. So have a thick skin. Some people will get back to you and some won’t. Some will want to collaborate with you and some won’t. The ones that will work with you will most likely support you 100%. I have reached out to some bloggers and they have gone above and beyond to help me, support me, encourage me, and work with me. Hang on to those networks and they will almost always instantaneously become your lifelong friends – virtually and or in person!

 

Step 8: Find a White Garage Door! This one seems funny, I know, but have you noticed how many of us take photos in front of a white garage door? This is used mostly for social media posts but next time you are on Instagram, scroll through and count how many photos are taken in front of a white garage door! If you don’t have one of your own, maybe a friend or neighbor does. Obviously this strategy is just for fun and helpful for a quick, clean photo with generally good lighting, but not imperative for a successful blog. You can take great photos anywhere that has a good background and excellent lighting, especially if you have a fancy camera!

 

Step 9: Find Time! If you are like me, one of the most difficult parts about blogging is finding the time to actually sit down and write a blog. I have a lot of good ideas, but getting them all down on paper is hard when you are a full time wife, mom, housecleaner, cook, educator, and also work part-time. Even if I were to schedule posts in advance, I’d still have trouble writing them in the first place! Organization is key and stay as consistent as possible. Unless blogging is your full time job and the way you make your living (which is rare for many of us) make time for blogging when you can, but if you are like me, being a mom and paying the bills are my priority and blog when I can. I do set aside time for it each week, but at this point I don’t blog more than once a week. Again, when I am ready to go to the next level, I will post multiple times a week and make it more of a career focus, but for now, I am happy connecting on the level I am now.

 

Step 10: Don’t Expect Much! Especially at the beginning, don’t get into blogging for the money, the fame, or the free products. Be true to who you are and genuine to your blog. Be unique and honest with your audience and followers. If you aren’t, shops, bloggers, and other viewers will see right through you. Create quality content that you would want to read and write your heart into your blogs. Some of your blog posts will get many viewers and some will not. Don’t let that discourage you. Keep it up and do it until you don’t want to anymore. If you gain a strong following and can make a living out of blogging and collaborations, then do it! The bloggers I know that blog as a full time job work very hard networking and attending blogging conferences, are emailing and networking on a daily basis, are constantly taking photos, and are writing everyday. For now, focus on getting yourself out there in this special online space and community and have fun!

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Hello! I am Dr. Kim and I am The Parentologist! I am first and foremost a wife and a mom. I am also a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Registered Play Therapist. I hope through my professional and personal experience we can collaborate with each other on how to better ourselves and our relationships with our families and our children. Read More…

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🇺🇸 What a monumental day in history we had t 🇺🇸 What a monumental day in history we had today! 🇺🇸

As soon as we woke up I started educating my children, specifically my daughter, on what the inauguration meant and why today was such a special day in history. We both were glued to the television as we watched @kamalaharris be sworn in as the first Black South Asian woman Vice President and @joebiden be sworn in as the 46th President of the United States. We also were powerfully moved hearing @amandascgorman - the youngest inaugural poet in history recite “The Hill We Climb.” 

My daughter was so excited to participate and recite the Pledge of Allegiance with the rest of the county and she was so proud to see and be a part of history in the making. I haven’t been to Washington D.C. in about 8 years but I promised I would take her one day when the pandemic is over. 

In the meantime, I have a fun fact for you! Did you know that President Joe Biden and I both graduated from the same university? Yep! We both went to @syracuseu 🍊 And in fact, @joebiden is the first @syracuseu alumnus to become President of the United States! 

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This time of year is notorious for dry air, allerg This time of year is notorious for dry air, allergies, and sinus trouble. #ad 

And since I work from home, it can get quite noisy and distracting with my husband and two children here, so sometimes I get my best work done in the comfort of my own bed. And the best part is that I can have my new @crane_usa “4 in 1” cool mist humidifier on at all times with essential oils to help with overall wellness and since it comes with a sound machine I can block out the other noises in the house! 

And at night, it helps my sinuses as I sleep, especially when the dry air of the heater is on, and it has a nightlight so my kids can see where they are going in the middle of the night when they inevitably need water or a hug! 

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Throwing it back to one of the first mommy and me photos I ever posted on my feed because I’ve been teaching my daughter about gratitude since she was this little, possibly even younger (she is two here for reference)! 

Gratitude is such an important virtue and must have trait to build a child’s character. It also shows therapeutic benefits when you show gratitude to others, so why wouldn’t you want to make it a priority to teach and instill in your children? 

In this blog, I have suggestions for how to teach children gratitude broken down by ages and stages from infancy to teenage years, while also including some conversation prompts, and links to my favorite gratitude journals for busy families that we use here at home! 

Find the direct link to read in my bio and stories! I also published similar articles on @todayparents and @redtricycle if you follow me there! #drkimblog
DOUBLE TAP if you agree!! 🙋🏼‍♀️ I am DOUBLE TAP if you agree!! 🙋🏼‍♀️

I am that mom who wants to do it all and when I get overwhelmed or start suffering from a major case of burnout, I feel guilty if I take a break instead of giving my body and mind permission to slow down or even stop. 

As moms we often feel guilty if we take a break or believe we are perceived as weak if we ask for help. I have learned that the more I ask for help and the more time I take for myself, the better I am for my children. 

Guilt is an emotional response to something you perceived you did wrong, but when you experience unnecessary guilt, it’s counterproductive to healing and helping you with what you need most. So give it a try and let me know how you are going to take a break and not feel guilty about it this week below in the comments! ⤵️ #drkimparentingtips #theparentologist #drkimparentingadvice
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I am so excited to have all of these new items from the @erincondren Hello Kitty collection that launched today to keep work fun, playful, and reminiscent of childhood - something all adults need a little more of, am I right? 

The collection is all about organization, kindness, and friendship. My favorite piece of the collection is the “Daily Kindness and Joy Journal” that boldly says BE KIND, BE NICE, REPEAT on the front cover but I am also pretty obsessed with the Hello Kitty x Erin Condren Pencil Case and Vegan Leather Padfolio! 

Swipe to see my business attire on top and activewear on the bottom work style! 😉 And head to my stories to see it all up close and for your convenience I have everything linked for you http://liketk.it/35XZC and make sure to follow me at THEPARENTOLOGIST @liketoknow.it  for more of my favorites!!! #liketkit #erincondren
{New Blog Post} “Sensory Play, Pretend Play, and {New Blog Post} “Sensory Play, Pretend Play, and Role Play Ideas for Children with Autism” 🧩 🧸 🚂 ⚽️ 
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For the last 3 years I have spent my career therapeutically helping families and children of all ages on the Autism Spectrum. Play has been a fundamental way for many of my clients to communicate if they are non-verbal. And some of my clients have had to be taught how to play with a toy or another person. The play ideas listed on the blog can be used with children with or without special needs. Play is a universal way a child can explore their world in a way that makes sense to them and cultivate imagination, creativity, and fun! As a Registered Play Therapist, I love the work I do and couldn’t be prouder of the progress my clients have made with play over the years! #drkimblog
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These winter months have been so dry and my eczema has been flaring up. Can anyone relate? For decades I have used a variety of treatment options from over-the-counter ointments and lotions to doctor prescribed steroid medication. In today’s blog, I am partnering with @mediqcme to share more of my story and struggles with atopic dermatitis as well as some new treatment options! If you or a loved one suffer from eczema or atopic dermatitis it’s a must read! 
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{New Blog Post} 🌿 “How to Utilize Play to Get {New Blog Post} 🌿 “How to Utilize Play to Get Your Kids to Do What You Want” 
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As a Registered Play Therapist, play is the foundation to the way I help children conceptualize and conquer the world. Play is second nature to children and the way they respond to many of life’s obstacles. Sometimes as parents, it is easy to get into a power match with your children, especially when you want your children to comply with a request and they won’t budge. When this happens, we need to change the way our adult mind thinks and switch it to the way a child thinks. Instead of giving them a punitive consequence, try these play recommendations that can be used with children as young as toddlerhood all the way to adolescents! #drkimblog 
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{New Blog Post} “Tips on How To Set Goals Effect {New Blog Post} “Tips on How To Set Goals Effectively in 2021” ✨ 
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It’s is usually around this time that I start thinking of the goals I want to accomplish for the year. And whether you believe in making resolutions, affirmations, or goals, it is time to be proactive!! On the blog, I outlined an organizational system I use year after year to help me accomplish my goals. And I hope they work for you!! 
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